"Dynamics"

              So I guess I will call this an 'epiphany'! To come to a realization that may be informative for you but possibly irreversible for me.
              Well so this out of town thing has really got me bothered. Not hot , simply bothered.......So, like you know how when you speak to your , in my situation, wife. Many times the only thoughts that are shared are thoughts of hardship. So that being on the outside you never are on the inside. Never able to feel the emotions of the different situations. Only the feelings of your wife.  You would most certainly have experienced some of your own.  Now this is definitely not to say that in quite possibly most instances the same set of emotions would have been felt BUT a different solution, a  life altering one was missed. Life changing, you know?
Ones that may have effected in a much more positive light for a welcome outcome.
            What have I missed!!!What have I done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!or Not Have Done?????
Don't let this happen to you................